Moving to the Edge of Freedom — Going beyond your made up capabilities

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. Security does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than exposure.”



If a cat ever jumps on a hot stove, he will never jump on a hot stove again. And that’s good. …

The Meaninglessness of our stories — The Power of Praise

“Reality is neither good nor bad. It’s bigger than good and bad. It has no opposite”

  • Byron Katie

For years, the book Prison to Praise by Merlin Carothers greatly impacted my life. And to this day, when much of what…

The Meaninglessness of our meanings — The Power of Gratitude

The Quickest Way to be happy is to choose what you already have — Werner Erhard

When a woman’s time is up for delivery, she has huge expectations. That expectation is legitimate. We all have expectations in everything that we…

The Meaninglessness of all our Meanings — Something Better than Heaven

“There is something better than heaven. It’s the eternal, meaningless, infinitely creative mind. It can’t stop for time or space or even joy. It’s so brilliant that it will shake what’s left of you into the depths of all-consuming…

The Meaninglessness of all our Meanings — The Space to Create

“There are only two things in the world: NOTHING and SEMANTICS.”

― Werner Erhard

When you know how much power you have to create whatever life you want, it will astound you. In my first book, Realizing Mental Resilience…

Returning to your TRUE SELF — Living a Life without our stories

I was in the Spirit on the Lord’s Day and heard behind me a great voice, as of a trumpet — Rev 1:10

So far, I have written a bit about what stories do to us, especially the…


“Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?” “Neither this man nor his parents sinned,” said Jesus, “but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life — John 9: 2

What is your story?

“A map is not the territory it represents, but if correct, it has a similar structure to the territory, which accounts for its usefulness” — Alfred Korzybski

The online dictionary defines a story as “a narrative, either true or fictitious, in prose or verse, designed to…


“As long as you think that the cause of your problem is “out there” — as long as you think that anyone or anything is responsible for your suffering — the situation is hopeless. It means that you are forever in the role…

Tunde Ekpekurede

I am Author, Coach & Trainer. I am currently CEO of, Learning4living, a Training and Executive Coaching organization. I hold AMP, LBS, MBA, UCD, (Dublin).

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